The market is quite devious in its ways. One thing it has done consistently over several years is to separate the most people from their money.
So if you lose money and lose it heavily, never think that you are alone in the crowd to lose money. You are the crowd. You are like 95% people who have lost. Rest .4999% just manage to about to break even. And it is just .00001% people who make money in this market. These are the people with deep pockets.